Practicing Zenatude® over the last several years, one thing I’ve gotten good at is not getting upset or overwhelmed by situations I can’t control. Instead of letting them slow me...
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How much time do you spend thinking about a decision, a goal, or a current dilemma? Going back and forth trying to figure it all out, hoping to come up...
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“Stop and smell the roses” was a phrase I heard often growing up — and most of us know it means taking time to slow down and enjoy the simple...
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A negative situation can be draining, especially when you’re expecting a great experience and then WHAM, you’re surprised with a bad result. Negative experiences aren’t bad…they can be the fuel...
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Yesterday, as I was running up the walkway after my beach run, a man standing there looking at the ocean said, “you’re making me feel guilty.” I smiled and responded,...
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Taking that first step is scary. There’s often a great deal of fear and uncertainty when moving toward a goal or launching a new project. That negative inner voice, paired...
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It’s that time of yearwhen the chill in the airis no longer a bitebut an invitewelcoming us to enterand leave behind winterproviding a fresh startto follow our heartGiving us a...
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Making the Best of What You Have Recently, my company, Wuh Duh Fuh®, participated in the Wine & Chili Festival in Solvang, California. It was an exciting opportunity—but like many...
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Whether you’re partnered, single, somewhere in between, or simply content — the longest relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself.
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Growth rarely happens in dramatic leaps. It happens through small choices, made consistently, especially on the days when motivation is low.
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Have you ever walked away from an uneasy situation telling yourself “I wish I handled that better?” And then you start wishing that you chose another response that wasn’t hostile?
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If you’re feeling a little stressed, take a moment and remember everything can’t be done at once—and it also can’t all be thought at once.
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Earlier this year when I was getting closer to finishing my ZenTen book, I started brainstorming on how to make it more interactive with a twist
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A small reminder that even when things get knocked down (or literally torn apart), we always have the choice to rebuild with intention, positivity, and a little humor.
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It’s not always easy to embrace or understand those who don’t share our beliefs. But choosing compassion over division is part of living with Zenatude.
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With just one taste, a lemon makes your lips pucker, your eyes squint, and your mood brighten, like it or not. A lemon can be your quick mental reset—jolting you...
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Imagine that you’re driving your car right now and three passengers are tagging along. When you left your house, it was just you, until you pulled over to read a...
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A couple of weeks ago, I reacted in a way that was the opposite of Zenatude and it has taken a lot of energy to keep from beating myself up...
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Last month I took an Uber to the Wonderfront Festival near downtown San Diego. When I hopped in, the driver had the radio turned up with a most annoying commercial...
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On my beach run this morning, I saw this shorebird choking. I stopped and started telling her, “You can do it, you can do it,” and several seconds later out...
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Sometimes we get so wrapped up in the stories we tell ourselves that we can’t get out of our own perspective…believing it’s “this way or the highway.”
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